Q4. Is it Wrong to be A STRONG Independent Woman

A: Oh what is wrong with the strong independent woman

A: Oh what is wrong with the strong independent woman

List stretch out in this The strong independent woman is usually highly prideful number one She desires to do all things by herself and desires a level of control that she is not willing to relinquish to anyone else If you come against this individual nine times out of 10 they will project upon you their beliefs and belief systems and try to make you feel uncomfortable once you identify what is wrong with them Why Because they need to project a viewpoint that they look a certain way and it must be maintained in order for them to continue to operate in this position but when you call out the issue nine times out of the ten they can't handle it because they created a facade that needs to be maintained

Secondarily into this Where in the Bible have you read that there was such a thing as a strong independent woman These women nine times out of ten were to destructive women where they not

It's a scripture in the Bible that talks about a man does not want to be in a house with Carlson woman they shouldn't they will rather be on the corner of the roof of a house than to be inside of a house with across some woman

Wait we supposed to be strong and independent that's my point Sometimes when you are strong and independent you feel like you have the right to what control a man Why Because the Bible States

That the curse to the man in the woman in the garden was that the woman would desire to have control and the man would desire to rule over and he would be stuck in toil due to that factor

We as women that if we are called to marriage our called to be aligned with a person that is properly assigned to us Independence is not part of what we walk in if we are supposed to walk in our calling

But what about Deborah she was a ruler she was a judge she was

One she had a partner in Barack as a business council partner

Secondarily she had a husband so she had two partners that were walking with her that is the backbone that kept her strong

Much like Moses had Aaron and her

I know we live in a time and a season that feminine empowerment is the thing but let me explain explain something to you

A man don't want a man

And many amen has broken up separated themselves or just frankly not wanted to get involved with a woman that was operating in that level of pride that level of control because they don't want to be controlled in a relationship They need to know that this person that they are partnering themselves with is in alignment with them and they don't want to be tormented throughout the relationship by somebody that's trying to compete and overpower them the entire time that they're together

Strong and independent can actually stem from a level of toxicity There is actually a goddess called goddess Astrawoth that operates under a male female spirit that desires to have power and control and it also desires to keep men from relationship and bearing children

So let's identify the characteristics of this strong independent pendant woman

She's she exudes strength much like a man

She desires power much like a man

She operates in pride much likes on men

She desires to have control

She also desires that She probably does not want to have children

She also has a desire to chase money more than relationship

And in a lot of ways she carries a level of toxicity towards men

This individual what may want relationship but she desires it from the wrong heart posture and motive and what's that motive yet again I state control

There are three different forms of this independent woman and they are

One this on her grind that just simply once to take care of herself and take care of what she needs to take care of what this person nine times out of ten is a full of pride because I can do by myself

Secondarily you have the woman that she seeks out a partner that she can have control over or have status as a part of meaning that she only wants the status of being associated with this individual but desires to remain in control of the relationship to maintain her posture and position This is what Jezebel was in the Bible

Then you have the strong woman that is destructive This is one that comes in and she gets her hooks into an individual she understands observes seeks out discerns exactly what it is that she wants from this individual and then she seeks out to destroy every level of independence every level of clarity and every level of what have cause she wants to be made God in this individual's life because she's that level of shrink that she wants to be the God in this individual and she will control by any means necessary to get what she wants even if this individual doesn't want to be with her anymore she will desire to maintain a relationship because she's more concerned with the status or more concerned with her level of control and if you separate from her desire for control over you you've now created a problem for yourself with this individual and she's going to try to destroy you

But when it is a strong independent woman and they don't want all that they just want to be strong and independent A their individuals that want to be

Some women are called to be alone to follow the gospel to do what it is that they are called to do some more but there is a proper heart posture at the end of the day it's weird the individuals heart is that matters the most if their heart isn't right towards the Lord and they have a vengeful and deceitful heart then they can hide behind that strong independent clout all they want but their heart is gonna tell me but if the person's heart is just that they want to have their own career to own life but They just dealing with that desire they can have that choice at the end of the day the choice needs to be understood where's the heart that caused the choice meaning what events in their life caused them to want to have that kind of life alone where they hurt where did they learn If you points that they can't have a life with a partner someone and so forth if that's what they want they want that Some people not called their head that kind of lifestyle but at the end of the day it's the heart

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Wears their heart lie

Does this individual have a good heart good heart posture and they just know that they know what they want from their life and they just at that particular point I haven't found it they need to find themselves and they need to heal that in that healing and getting their heart right they may comfortable point that they may want more but a lot of people end up in this I want to be a strong woman by myself because they're repelling the idea of having a man in their life because they've been hurt They've been bitter They saw their parents treated incorrectly by men They've seen and they don't just date they don't deal with it They just want to have their own and at the end of the day it's about their heart in their heart posture is it something that needs to be healed is it's a belief system that needs to be changed as a mindset about certain things that need to be transformed what is it a understanding what that is and how to operate in that

Where is their heart posture